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Social media, parents and children

19 February 2026 · 2 Ramadan 1447 AH

The importance of the Internet and social media in modern times cannot be denied, but if we look at their advantages and disadvantages, we come to the conclusion that it all depends on our thinking and mindset as to what we are aiming for. Are using An extremely worrying situation is spreading epidemic in our society, which is the very free and uncontrolled use of social media by teenagers.
The social networking site Facebook was launched in 2007, and only a few people have used it. At that time, along with the option of creating an account on this site, special emphasis was also given to write the ID card number or credit card number of the account creator so that it would be clear that the person creating the ID is an adult. The ID created in this way was not only reliable but also could not be misused. But over time, not only did these rules and regulations appear to be violated, but a number of software were developed that helped the user create IDs based on incorrect information without heeding these rules. These websites also softened their terms in the cycle of self-interest, expanding fame and fortune. This made it easier for everyone to access these social networking sites, even without age imprisonment and accurate information, and gradually they embraced not only innocent children but also parents.
At a critical age when the new generation desperately needs parental guidance, parents have lost their hobbies, depriving their children of that special emotional attachment. How is it possible to train children in an environment where parents do not have time for their children! In fact, it is not easy to be a parent. Parents are responsible not only for their children, but also for the education and training of the whole society. It is also important to consider the manner in which the child is being trained and under what motives; what kind of thinking is growing in their empty, innocent and raw minds; and these are the factors that determine these children. What environment or mindset do parents have? A mother's desire should be to fulfill her unfulfilled desires through education and training of her children, but in this modern age, mothers have no time for their children. There is not enough space in their personal engagements to take even two moments for their livers. The question is, when these same mothers are on the verge of old age tomorrow, will their children take care of them? Probably not; because they hadn't learned to care, and then maybe they didn't even need an old home because these same kids would put their parents in a corner of the house and hand them a mobile phone. God forbid that this should happen, but without taking the worst picture of the fears that are to come, they cannot be made to realize that they are burning their own homes in a frenzy of social media, and in this fire not only their old age, but their The future of the children will also be burnt.
The mother's lap is the child's first training ground, and it can be said without fear that the best training of a child can only be done by a mother, and a mother never shifts away from her responsibilities. But what about today's mothers, who see nothing but their own selves? The children come home from school and want their mother's full attention. But the mother has given a friend living abroad time to chat. During the conversation, the camera is on, there is a lot of gossip, domestic and foreign situations are also being discussed, this lady is crying about the inflation and politics of Pakistan, and she is talking about the high standard of living and benefits there. By shedding light, she is making them feel inferior. If this is the standard of training for the new generation, then Pakistan has made progress. Tomorrow, when your children have migrated without you, affected by this crying, your mind and conscience will be shaken:

Why are you sad now in the winter evenings?
This is what happens in such works
Then you will sit down and think that I wish it was better to give time to a friend, to run around, to listen to your children's problems, to give them time, to keep an eye on their activities, then he is a good Muslim and the best person. Would be When the foundation is wrong, society will be made up of people who are ignorant of ethics, values ​​and traditions.
There is an urgent need to remind these "lost" mothers of their true place. These modern Westernized mothers walk this paradise under their feet wearing high heels, going to fashion shows and clubs, forming orphan rights organizations, raising their children in a Westernized environment, in street rallies, protests, sit-ins. I'm wasting. This country and nation will need the parties and organizations they have formed later. The first right belongs to their children who see their mothers fighting in the streets, fighting in front of the media, getting arrested, harassing men, making noise. In their schools and colleges, they hide from their friends and teachers that their mother has forgotten to hug her children on TV while waking up the nation.

What will the next generation find in the mother's womb?
Where will the mother wearing jeans come from?
On the other hand, through these social networking sites, children are also heading for disaster at the hands of their own parents. The Internet is devouring innocent children, including their parents. One woman just went home to avoid boredom and to spend time