Full faith
Ten-year-old Miran, eight-year-old Sughra, eleven-year-old Bangladeshi girl Halima, fourteen-year-old Humaira smoking a cigarette are still remembered in my memory with their facial expressions and gestures. Whenever I read or hear news of sexual abuse and murder of a minor or a teenage girl, I am reminded of all the girls I met in Darulaman and women's prisons who came there under various forms of social oppression. They all came from the tribal, hilly and plain areas. Some of them were bought and sold, some were married to a man twice her age in the name of custom. Some were offered as prostitutes, while others were brought to the market for prostitution at the age of eleven or twelve to fill their stomachs with hell. Absolutely ignorant of the concepts of marriage, divorce, 'iddah, adultery, rape, sin, reward, evil, immorality, these girls are a question mark for the entire Islamic society. What has the oppression of the ignorant tribal society made them? Bought, sold item…! The purpose of his life was to make a living by selling his body; who did this injustice? He was kept unfamiliar with the concept of modesty and purity from his childhood, so today his condition is that for him this humiliation is not humiliation. Prostitution is not immoral to them, nor is it obscene, nor do they consider it a sin for themselves, because no one has ever introduced this evil to them as an evil, so how can they recognize it as an evil? Can do
There is no wave of remorse on their spotted faces. When you ask them how you got stuck in this filthy fog? She will look at you with deadly eyes as if she did not understand anything. We have been hearing and reading since childhood that modesty and shame are part of a woman's nature. What happened to the nature of these girls? The accursed Satan, while informing Allah, the Lord of Glory, of his plans, said, "I will mislead the people until they change the divine structure (ie nature) by my command." There are many ways to change God's structure or nature, one of which is to use what God has created for a purpose other than the purpose for which He has created it.
The "mother's womb" of women or girls is forcibly restrained from fulfilling the purpose for which God created them and forcing a woman or girl to be used for some very vile and abominable purpose in the divine structure. The worst example of change.
Adultery, whether voluntary or coercive, is both the worst sin and the most heinous act against natural modesty. In various cases, the consent of the woman or girl is taken forcibly to persuade her to do so, and underage girls do not even know what they are being used for. In tribal societies, it is customary to marry in exchange for a dowry, a vani, and money, as examples of the oppression and exploitation of women or girls. The heinous rituals under the auspices of culture have been going on uninterruptedly for centuries and today the roots of this culture in Pakistan are so deep that the legislature, judiciary, administration and law enforcement agencies are helpless before them. These are the bitter realities of our society which, if told more openly, will bring to light many tragic stories. In short, the sale and purchase of teenage girls, prostitution under the guise of begging, their use in various crimes, the sale and purchase of Bangladeshi girls and women; all this is not hidden. There is not much distance between child labor and child abuse. Even today, in many ignorant tribes, the standard they set for a girl to be able to marry is that when a girl is able to carry a jug full of water on her side and walk, consider her fit for marriage. Has been Despite the existence of a law banning early marriage, the practice has not ended.
"Stomach writing" means the relationship is established before the baby is born while it is still in the mother's womb. Usually, in a marriage of convenience, such a relationship is established that if a man has a relationship with his sister, daughter, he will take the relationship for himself or his son in return. If there is no adult woman to give to him, then the name of the girl who is still in the womb is written in return. Similarly, in business cases, the fine imposed by the tribal jirga on the accused or the accused is either in the form of money or the sister or daughter of the accused, whatever her age, is given as a fine. All these ignorant rituals and crimes against women and girls are proving to be new stimuli to the lustful people in the society. While the media is proving to be an element of sexuality in the society, all these attitudes mentioned above can also prove to be inviting to the wicked when buying and selling girls in the name of customs or marrying them without their consent. If they can go, why can't the same girls become easy prey for rape? However, whatever the motives behind the heinous incidents of child abuse and murder, most of the responsibility lies with the social attitudes towards women. On the one hand there is ancient ignorance and on the other hand there is modern ignorance; both ignorance present woman as one sex, and persecution above oppression that at that time the tyrannical powers change the natural divine structure of man and woman.